Walking the Lonely Road of Guilt in Grief

Road lined with bare trees in late autumn

After someone we love dies we often experience guilt. Learning to move through the guilt and find release is crucial to healing. But it can be tricky to know how to get unstuck. It is helpful to put words to the feelings and articulate our own unique experience with loss. Grief is universal and understanding…

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8 Phases in Grief Therapy

Woman in emotional distress leaning against a tree in cemetery

You may be wondering if grief therapy is for you. How will it help? Is therapy really worth the time and investment? The better question is what is the cost of NOT getting the help you need. It’s true, there is no bringing your loved one back. The trouble is you are still living and…

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Grieving Well After the Pandemic

Image representing grief, sad lake

“Give sorrow words; the grief that does not speak knits up the o-er wrought heart and bids it break.”   William Shakespeare What does that even mean?  I’ve spent many hours staring at those words and trying to determine their meaning.  My therapist has a picture of them on the wall in his office.  I no…

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